Sometimes twins don’t always live up to their proceeding reputations. One of which is ESP, extra sensory perception—gaining information from the natural world through a “sixth sense” that is not part of the five main senses.
This is forever linked to twins and the question, “If I punch one twin, will the other feel it?” Nope, not really, can’t feel it. So stop beating up twins.
Yet some twins do share a deeper bond compared to most siblings. This ability may be presented as a heightened sensitivity to one another–not necessarily ESP. In some cases if one twin is in a serious accident or has upset feelings the other will sense urgency. However this phenomenon is not exclusive to multiples. Anyone can have a “twin-like” connection with someone else.
Main Drawbacks to Consider
. Awkwardness in School
Separation may leave the lone twin fending off others taking unnecessary liberty to ask, “Would you go out with the same guy/girl?” “Have you ever swapped dates?” And the list goes on.
. Pointing Out Differences
No one is immune to teasing, but twins have the added pressure of being compared to one another, which can present problems for their relationship and later self-esteem.
. Two Different People with the Same Face
It is important to encourage each twin to develop their individual identity starting at an early age by spending time with each and dressing them differently.
Best Part of Being a Twin
Twins and multiples have a built in best friend and comparing twins or asking questions only exasperates their unique qualities. Twins have unique dispositions and relationships. Allowing each twin and multiple to express themselves will foster a better relationship and self-esteem.
If you have a twin story, question or comment, please send it in. We’ll be waiting…